People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.
  • When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a Godsend, and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.

  • When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.

  • LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway); and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
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Aleluyah~ today is tiring, for i don't know what. and erm..Tomorrow UNDANG~ hoorey? swt? lol? hahaha~ oh please, bless me through the sien sien lonely moment..T.T~


Nah Samz, found that you veeeery like listening to songs. haha..

*Jack, people around didn't say, does not at all mean that, they do not know. They are protecting their friend, in a way that they don't want to give him more thing called ''hurt''- an ouch. They're more afraid if they will bring you worse than you were, or that they will lose you. Eg: how many people, if their friend is taking drugs, they'll advise the friend continuously? Rare. I'd say, believe this > If you know who you have been, you will probably laugh at it. Just a maybe. Because, i was once too, laughed at myself for being silly, in my past. Oh and hey..i am not XXX, i am just someone who realised something that i should realise.*

2 comments:

GGdTJJ said...

don't know why, just feel that you want the people around you to be good.. given that they have the potential being so...

and, if my 'your friends' that you refer to de is last time at st de hua, i can tell you, they are such the greatest friends, who back me up and tolerate me...

anyway, allow me to leave this stubborn word. afterall, "you don't know me much"

Lim Kah Wei, Kathy said...

um..i didn't mean them, coz in my memory, i don't even know how your past went. lol..

yea, Of course i don't know you much. 4 months with countable conversations, how would I know that much?

the one who knows the most, is yourself perhaps..